tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.comments2023-07-09T01:48:47.511-06:00(usually barefoot) megUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger21896125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-35068096525361039962014-10-04T11:35:35.904-06:002014-10-04T11:35:35.904-06:00My primary function is introverted intuition. So I...My primary function is introverted intuition. So I'm happiest when I'm seeing connections between things and fitting them together. I like when I'm working on finances when all the numbers neatly fall into place. I like when I'm working on formatting a newsletter or yearbook when all the pictures and text fall into place on the page. (Even when I have to squeeze new things in. It's the getting things to look like they were meant to be there, to see the connections and make them work, that I really enjoy.) When I'm thinking through an idea it's the moment when all the concepts fall into place and make sense in some interconnected way that I really enjoy. That's all Ni stuff. <br /><br />An INTJ is, in this order, an Ni, Te, Fi, Se. So I primarily work out of my introverted intuition mode. My Te is subordinate to my Ni. So, unlike my mom who is primarily a Te, I don't just jump up and start doing things indiscriminately because I see that they need to be done. I jump up and start doing things when they fit into the pattern of things that I've determined, using my Ni, to be important. Because I'm also Fi (which is subordinate to both Ni and Te) I tend to prefer having a closer collection of friends rather than going out and enjoying everyone I meet. But, like I said, that's subservient. So if there'a an event that relates to something my Ni is interested (Let's say I'm at a conference about personality types.) and I'm in a setting where I'm going around learning (Ni) and interaction with people (Te - which means it will be in a way to get things done, not to meet people) then my Fi (preference for a closer set of folks) won't make any difference because my Te is very happily meeting boat loads of people with information that feeds my Ni. <br /><br />Don't know if that makes any sense. :-}barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-48183743102206014212014-10-04T11:24:25.276-06:002014-10-04T11:24:25.276-06:00Yes, Rob is an extraverted sensor and an introvert...Yes, Rob is an extraverted sensor and an introverted thinker. Se - primary, Ti - secondary. barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-79243585396674968732014-10-04T10:21:25.985-06:002014-10-04T10:21:25.985-06:00I could pinpoint myself in the Extroverted post, b...I could pinpoint myself in the Extroverted post, but not Introverted. I guess closest is Fi. What are you?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06272027619948752952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-52209178993531094102014-10-04T10:16:53.174-06:002014-10-04T10:16:53.174-06:00I'm getting around to reading some of these bl...I'm getting around to reading some of these blog posts.. because well, I didn't know you had a blog. I'm guessing Rob is a Se? When I envision someone waving their arms in the air, that person is usually Rob. My extrAverted side is Te, but I think we knew that from all the moving and shaking I do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06272027619948752952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-66711000522560598022014-09-29T09:21:01.034-06:002014-09-29T09:21:01.034-06:00You have a blog???You have a blog???Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06272027619948752952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-84176768258194380352014-09-28T10:36:10.209-06:002014-09-28T10:36:10.209-06:00These are funny! Thanks for sharing a few.These are funny! Thanks for sharing a few.brendainmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15680620984412256706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-66950625881349913882014-08-08T04:21:19.108-06:002014-08-08T04:21:19.108-06:00Although I know this post is meant for your friend...Although I know this post is meant for your friends and family who can physically attend, I'll be there in spirit. My own baptism was in a pool in a church, so you're blessed to have yours and your husband's in a river. I never go to swimming pools because I hate the smell and effects of chlorine. Will be thinking of you.brendainmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15680620984412256706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-31018540909204317912013-11-25T07:29:46.221-07:002013-11-25T07:29:46.221-07:00That's a tendency I find super annoying. (Ther...That's a tendency I find super annoying. (There's a lot of that in England - personality types aren't the only factor, cultural norms come into it too, and avoidance of conflict is a huge thing here, at least in the south.) (Or maybe countries or regions have some kind of equivalent of a personality type?)<br /><br />But I'm thinking of someone I know who I'm pretty sure is an Fe, she is the type who thrives on social interaction, likes to be surrounded by people, the more the merrier, and is very chatty. I wouldn't say she likes everyone to be lovey dovey all the time, I don't associate her with the "anything for peace and harmony" brigade at all, she speaks her mind and when I disagree with her she doesn't seem like it's a problem to her, it's just that she doesn't seem interested in actually discussing the ins and outs of the issue, it's like she only wants conversation to be happening for the sake of the sound of conversation, a bit like you might enjoy listening to birds twitter, but nothing too demanding. (Reminds me of some comments I see on G+ sometimes where people say things like "this is a social network, we come here for fun, this isn't the place for debates". (I'm sure I had a point, initially...)Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-54463369349706670012013-11-24T16:16:41.000-07:002013-11-24T16:16:41.000-07:00I have an Fe friend that simply doesn't know h...I have an Fe friend that simply doesn't know how to deal with discord. You would think that as an Fe she'd be well equipped to step in and help people work through a problem while being considerate of each other's feelings. But instead she doesn't want anyone to be upset with her so she doesn't say anything at all. It's like she has blinders on or puts a wall up. She has a hard time even acknowledging that discord exists. She just wants everyone to be lovey dovey despite their differences. There's no sense of working through stuff to get to a point of agreement. barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-40122056294337010542013-11-24T07:36:42.934-07:002013-11-24T07:36:42.934-07:00interesting, yes, I guess sharing my pics is a way...interesting, yes, I guess sharing my pics is a way I give people a window into my extravert side.<br /><br />the tunnel vision thing is something I have seen so clearly in you, and I envy you that - but I can see that yes, there can be times when it's a hindrance. I've only rarely had those kind of things happen that you describe - either when I've been walking along very very deep in thought (so being physically outside but actually busy introverting) or when I shared living space with people and they saw me when I wasn't awake yet. But normally for me the problem is the other way round - too many distractions around me when I'm trying to focus on what someone is saying, and I have to make a huge effort to shut the distractions out. It's really interesting hearing you describe how it works for you - as with so many of these personality type issues, it helps me to see that others function very differently to me, so if people expect me to be ok in X situation it may be because, guess what, X situation works just fine for them so they don't realise it wouldn't work for everybody. (In other words, they're not deliberately trying to torture me.)Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-12195840997689507402013-11-23T22:25:46.258-07:002013-11-23T22:25:46.258-07:00Oh good! I'm always kind of reticent to say &q...Oh good! I'm always kind of reticent to say "this is how you are" to someone based on their personality type because, for all I know, that's not how the person is. And since I don't see you in the "real world" I don't necessarily see you extraverting. But your pictures say a lot about you and that's helped me to get a better understanding of Ne. <br /><br />It's funny but Ne is one of the hardest functions for me to grasp. I think it's because I'm Ni so I assume it's got to be different than me, but I have no idea what that would look like. But as I see it in you and some of my other friends (especially my "real life" friends where I can see it in action) it's starting to make more and more sense. <br /><br />And that tunnel vision thing... that is SOOOOOOOO me. And it's not just an idea/inside sort of thing. I can't even begin to tell you how many times I've been walking somewhere or talking to someone and I didn't notice something RIGHT NEXT to the person I'm talking to or the place that I'm headed. It's like I have blinders on to everything except the person or thing that I'm focused on. People assume I'm ignoring them or being rude, but it's really that I honestly don't see them, even when they're just a few feet away. I'm starting to learn how to deal with it socially (acting more openly surprised when I DO finally see the person seems to help) but it's been hard because I don't even know it's happening and once I realize, I'm so shocked that I tend to go into myself instead of extending out into that newly discovered space. barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-56893175960226798052013-11-23T20:19:49.479-07:002013-11-23T20:19:49.479-07:00Yeah, I think Fe is what I normally think of when ...Yeah, I think Fe is what I normally think of when I think of extraverts. Now I've read this, I'm going to be on the lookout for examples of the other three.<br /><br />That bit about preferring collaboration over intense debate or discussion - that's the bit in Fe types that drives me up the wall :)Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-90886317969378588922013-11-23T20:00:06.950-07:002013-11-23T20:00:06.950-07:00Oh yes, this makes tons of sense to me!!! Thank yo...Oh yes, this makes tons of sense to me!!! Thank you! I needed these more specific descriptions to understand what you were talking about - and it helps that you know me so well. And I find it helpful to think in terms of depth vs. breadth. Yes, I do take stuff in from all over the place, I don't have the ability to get tunnel visioned. And I think you're right, the Ne side is what gets me out and about - I've wondered about that at times, how come that I'm an introvert but once in a while I feel a strong, powerful need to go out and *see* stuff, it's what gets me walking and taking pics, it's what gets me browsing in shops, it's a very strong need and now it makes sense. Yeeha! I think I've got it!!! *happy dance*Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-9578936639079594812013-11-23T13:45:33.003-07:002013-11-23T13:45:33.003-07:00(Sorry it takes me so long to reply. I need to fid...(Sorry it takes me so long to reply. I need to fiddle with the settings so I get alerts when there's a new comment here.)<br /><br />Yup, that's what I'm saying. I'm an introverted intuitive and you're an extraverted intuitive. When it comes to our intuition, I have depth, you have breadth. (You have depth when it comes to your judging function, which is feeling. I have breadth when it comes to my judging function, which is thinking. Depth is an introverted thing. Breadth is an extraverted thing.) So we both see things or experience things or hear things and then make connections. We see possibilities and ideas and patterns. But when I do it, it tends to revolve around some specific areas of interest. (Typology, community/housing issues/relational interactions, health/gardening/environment) When you are being intuitive, you're taking it all in. Your whole brain gets engaged in seeing, connecting, forming patterns, etc. That's why it makes sense when you joke about being easily distracted. That's classic Ne. Your awareness (perceiving) is always ready to take in something new. Mine, on the other hand, is only ready to take in things related to those areas of interest. I just don't have the bandwidth to deal with things outside of those areas (nor the interest). <br /><br />Now when it comes to our judging functions, that's where I have breadth. Extraverted thinking is about getting things done. Though I generally only use it to get things done related to my first function (functions tend to be subservient that way... which means your Ne is probably subservient to your Fi, which might limit it's breadth), it's what I call upon when I have to do things I don't want to do. It's what kicks me in the butt and gets me out of my head and moving in the real world. Which means it has to deal with anything that comes up = breadth. (I wonder if your Ne is what gets you out walking - the chance to get out and see stuff, make connections, see possibilities in the world around you.) <br /><br />Does that help? barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-15779213227163059452013-11-17T18:11:51.665-07:002013-11-17T18:11:51.665-07:00am confused. are you saying that your intuitive fu...am confused. are you saying that your intuitive function (as a J) is introverted and my intuitive function (as a P) is extraverted? what does that mean in practice?Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-62001116149525108552013-11-17T16:58:58.422-07:002013-11-17T16:58:58.422-07:00The J and the P tell you which of your two middle ...The J and the P tell you which of your two middle functions are extraverted. So you're a P, that means your second function (the N) is extraverted. I'm a J, so my third function is extraverted. But neither of us are extraverts which means our primary function is the opposite (so for me that's my second function, the N, and for you it's your third function, the F). <br /><br />People either extravert by taking stuff in (also called perceiving - that's the N or S function) or they extravert by making judgements (the T or F function). Ne's take in lots and lots of ideas/possibilities. Ni's take in idea or possibilities that are related to their few areas of interest. Ne's go wide. Ni's go deep. (In general, an extraverted function goes wide. An introverted function goes deep.) As an Fi, you go deep into your own emotions and those of the people close to you. An Fe, on the other hand, is concerned about the emotions of people they don't even know. (That's why they're more susceptible to peer pressure and mob mentality. But they're also really good at taking care of strangers and throwing a really great party where everyone has a good time.) barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-49969367819689536812013-11-16T14:40:53.658-07:002013-11-16T14:40:53.658-07:00Interesting. The Ti bit sounds like my husband, bu...Interesting. The Ti bit sounds like my husband, but I reckon he's a J and not a P. (he hasn't done a test, so this is just my own... intuitive guesswork...)Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-15331427274449654482013-11-16T14:34:57.590-07:002013-11-16T14:34:57.590-07:00Ok, so now that I'm looking at this I see why ...Ok, so now that I'm looking at this I see why I've felt so confused by the Fi/Si/Ti/Ni thing - how come for some types it's the third letter that is dominant and for some it's the second? You and I both share the first two, yet you as an INTJ are labelled as an Introvert Intuitive but I as an INFP am not. What's the deal with that?Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-67297206411087310062013-09-19T15:24:19.369-06:002013-09-19T15:24:19.369-06:00Interesting.
I'm trying out primal/paleo eati...Interesting.<br /><br />I'm trying out primal/paleo eating right now - I wonder how it compares.Richard Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02992953887143715818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-8281491982428711192013-08-02T04:45:39.309-06:002013-08-02T04:45:39.309-06:00Thanks, Meg. You did a good job. I don't think...Thanks, Meg. You did a good job. I don't think the majority of us ever realized how important the health of our gut was as we only thought about he body. I've often wondered why there are so many people, especially children, have illnesses like allergies. I was one of the lucky ones who was breastfed. My youngest sister wasn't because she was premature. For a long time she's had stomach problems. Another problem she has is, even today, she's a picky eater.<br /><br />Also, in a past post didn't you mention making your own kombucha? Have you got a link? Thanks so much I've learned so much from this expert. How well she explains things. We all need to start eating like I did when I was little and living on a farm when I hope I didn't drink 'frankenstein' milk.brendainmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15680620984412256706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-5670511575176046932013-08-01T14:54:41.972-06:002013-08-01T14:54:41.972-06:00This is a really good (and fairly short) article o...This is a really good (and fairly short) article on leaky gut syndrome: http://dchealthybites.com/tag/leaky-gut/barefootmeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10896090938982099546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-74428081073692786292013-07-31T04:28:35.339-06:002013-07-31T04:28:35.339-06:00Thanks. I'll try this sometime.Thanks. I'll try this sometime.brendainmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15680620984412256706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-29903764364436348162013-07-29T15:52:59.475-06:002013-07-29T15:52:59.475-06:00I was just looking at photos from another family r...I was just looking at photos from another family reunion on facebook. A couple of summers ago, I went to my only surviving aunt's homecoming (she hosts one every summer) and met some of my second cousins and their children for the first time. Glad you all were able to get together.brendainmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15680620984412256706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-84087962354434162492013-07-26T04:54:37.630-06:002013-07-26T04:54:37.630-06:00I've seen this one on FB so won't share it...I've seen this one on FB so won't share it. It's good to know that it's worth trying. Some of the recipes I've tried have been not worth repeating. I tried a chicken one not too long ago and it was too salty even though I didn't add salt. When I see one of my friends sharing that particular one, I always add my opinion of it.brendainmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15680620984412256706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3591298.post-73128996686543908612013-07-25T05:59:31.370-06:002013-07-25T05:59:31.370-06:00Well, maybe if it tastes like hummus then even a p...Well, maybe if it tastes like hummus then even a pedant like me might relent about the naming :-)<br /><br />Reminds me of stuff my mum used to make which she called "mock chopped liver", made of aubergines - from the days when we had rationing and people invented all sorts of meat-free/egg-free recipes to imitate the stuff they were missing. So maybe this zucchini thing could be "mock hummus" :-)Meirav M. (Berale)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00067487655119966525noreply@blogger.com